Our expert says:
A wife shouldnt need her husband's permission to go out ; but if he has reasonable concerns that you may have been spending wastefully it would be understandabl that he would be angry if that was what you were doing.
Is this your car in the sense that YOU are fully paying for it ? Or is he also paying for it, and may reasonably expect to be able to use it, too ? Are all the funerals he goes to of people HE knew but you didn't ? Could you go with him to these funerals ?
Its not treaing him like a child to expect him to be considerate of the needs and wishes of his wife and child, and not to be entirely selfish in how he spends his ime and uses the car you share.
Between you, as a family, you earn a good amount of money compared to very many people, and should plan not to spend all you get, but to save for emergencies and the cihld's needs, etc. If he is always broke, wht is he spending R 15000 a month on ?
Have you ried to persuade him that Marriage Counselling for the pair of you might be a really good idea ?
What do other readers think and suggest ?
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