Our expert says:
If he is maried to you, your debts are his debts anyway/ He should have been helping from the start, helping you to deal with the work problems, sharing your decision about whether to remain at work, and dealing with the debt problems. WHy are you talking about YOUR debts, rather than "our debts" ? Are these major financial debts you undertook entirely on your own and entirely for your own benefit ?
Amd yopu're right, it is entirely unhelpful for him to keep reminding you of whatever errors you made, rather than helping you to find solutions and to learn how not to repeat the same mistakes.
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