Our expert says:
My sense is that if you are unsure, say that you are not okay with it just yet. As far as risks go - it depends what you are referring to. As far as sexually transmitted infections go, if your husband is taking semen into his mouth and swallowing, then there is a risk of infection afterwards if the other man has an STI. The only way being safe in this regard is for the man to wear a condom - but this doesn't sound like it's part of the fantasy! As far as dangers for the relationship...that's another matter entirely. Some people have the ability to tolerate this, others don't. I suggest that only you can know how you will feel about this afterwards and whether you think it will impact on you/your feelings towards him. We can try to be rational, but emotions often aren't...so unless you are sure, I'd advise caution. I am also more than a little intruiged by the fact that you know of a man who is 'will to help out' and just happens to be coming to stay tomorrow night...seems a little convenient to me!
Claire - SASHA
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