Our expert says:
Sounds like the others are being rather greedy, and unrealistic ( as people often are when they are spending someone ELSE'S money ) in wanting more than they need, and wanting it all at once. A mother can hope that her children will help her, but should not demand it nor turn nasty if she doesn't get everything she wants when she wants it --- that's treating her as a cash cow, not a daughter. Support this nice woman ( your gf ) and encourage her to be firmer with her mother --- to point out that this is HER money, and she will spend it as she pleases, and though she hopes to continue to help, the mother must stop being greedy and demanding, or the funds could get cut off. A nice daughter isn't an excuse for the mother and other children to do nothing to get work and raise funding for themselves.
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