Our expert says:
Whether or not relaed to his troubling childhood, he sounds like a guy with significant problems which he is not coping with well, and not ready for a real relationship --- it was so unwise to have a child with someone like him before being certain the relationship was sound and lasting. Sounds as though he finds issues arising from his childhood experiences very disturbing, and maybe wasn't too expertly handled in therapy, such that he broke it off rather than persisting. He will need to work through this some time or other. I'm not sure whether you will be able to save the relationship on your own, and his potential for violence needs to be worrying.
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