Our expert says:
If you are dealing right now with the crisis of unemployment, anyone else who even slightly deserves your help in the good times, should understand it and not expect you to help them until you are secure and well again. Good people would be concerned about helping YOU with YOUR current problems, and would not be disappointed or sad about you not helping them with their probably less serious problems right now.
If there is a court decision as to how much your Ex should be paying, I think you could return to court and they could compel him to pay.
And how about getting involved with SADAG, the Anxciety-Depression Support Group until you can afford to see your shrink again ? And check out a local goverment clinic or hospital which could at least continue to supply you with medicines.
Call Lifeline - gather all the support available, to weather this storm
You can and should get through this rough patch.
Of course you don\t mean to cause pain in other people's lives, and it's your depression speaking and exaggerating the pain you think you might be causing. Deal with your own pain responsibly first, and when you are better, you will again be in a position to help others as you have in the past.
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