Our expert says:
Im surprised at how much significance people place in mere calendar years - its emotional and social age that counts. Some young teens have old heads, some folks in 20's, 30's even 40's can be awfully immature.
Why is this "older guy" thing apparently such an issue for both of you ? There is no guarantee on earth than anyone simply because they are older, will be more mature or treat you better.
From your own description, you seem to have treated him surprisingly and undeservedly cruelly at times : why ?
And in this situation, instead of your habit of abandoning him then picking him up again, why don't you go to see a couples / relationship counsellor together and see what can be worked out ? Maybe FAMSA can guide you towards someone helpful
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