Our expert says:
So, if I understand you, you were not frank or fully honest with this woman from the start, not revealuing that you were, relevantly, staying with someone else at the time ? Maybe that relationship was ending, but it was surely still relevant to the new woman in your life ?
Then you lied when she found out ( I wonder why you might have needed a nanny ? ) And then again you tried to lie your way out of THAT situation.
Can you really wonder why she doesnt believe or trust you now ? No wonder she decided to end the relationship ; its sad that you made her pregnant beforehand.
Maybe there wasnt anything sexual or emotional going on between you and your previous woman at the time you met this one, but as soon as you lied about that, you convinced her, very reasonably, that there was. Lying always strongly suggests there's something sneaky going on.
If you were her, I doubt you'd trust you again !
Be honourable and kindly in caring about and for the child and arrangeing proper maintenance, and see what happens. Pushing her now will only encourage her to draw further away from you
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