Our expert says:
Obviously you didn't cause any of your daughter's health problems, and your ex should be aware that if the matter of maintenance goes to court, the court will want proof of his full earnings and savings, as well as yours, in deciding what proportion of the child's costs should be paid by each of you.
Maybe he's experiencin some financial problems he doesn't want to reveal ? Sadly, though she may be partly deaf in her ear, he seems to be deaf in his heart.
As for the party, at least discuss this with his mom, who, it sems, understands he sort of guy he is, and will join you in preventing any discomfort for any of you.
As Purple says, geting a proper court order on maintenance might be wise, for now and for the future. And it doesn't easily allow for him to back out of it.
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