Our expert says:
Divorce support expert
How do you get rid of her? I sense a lot of anger here and I would like to ask you: what are you angry about?
I know already that your fiance used to be a stripper, doesn't own anything and cannot spell and she is also the mother of your twin children. We cannot know when we meet someone whether the relationship is going to last or not. Relationships, like people, change. There is no right or wrong, no failure, just changes and if changes within relationships start making people unhappy then one should explore the options that will make everyone happy. When it's two people it's easier. We can leave each in separate directions. When children are involved we keep a common ground for the rest of our lives and we have a responsibility towards our children's happiness. So, to come to your question of how to get rid of her? how about putting forward that you have noticed how unhappy she is and how unhappy you have become too. You both deserve happiness. If you can't find it together agree on finding it separately while keeping the goal and responsibility of making sure that your children will be happy and happier with two happy parents.
Wishing you happiness.
SADSA | The South African Divorce Support Association
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