Our expert says:
Love, obviously, is important, but like a diamond the setting also makes a significant difference. Suimply feeling love for someone doesn't make it wise to ignore all the reality factors about where one will live, and under what circumstances.
I hear so often from women who married men who were already faithfully married to their friends, and who are more faithful to their pals than to their wives. Its usually part of the signs of an immature boy ( whatever his age in yeas ) who really isn;t ready for a mature relationship with a real Woman, rather than sticking with the Boys.
It sounds as though you love him very far more than he actually loves you, or he couldn't tell you to accept his friend-centred life or leave.
It is in no way fair to you to suggest, as you do, that you should somehow anaesthetize your emotions and put up with such unacceptable behaviour within this relationship.
Try to persuade him to join you in marriage counselling to see what might be sorted out, or make plans to leave and consult a lawyer to protect your rights and interests.
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