Our expert says:
Wow, the other replies must really have given you some food for thought. These issues are things that you and your wife DO need to take seriously as this could be very different in realisy than in fantasy. That said, there are people who practice alternative lifestyles like you and your wife are considering. My advice to you is to consult extensively with others who have done it first to find out what ground rules are helpful, tips about keeping safe (practically and emotionally). At the very least, you BOTH need to be able to call time out at any time with no blame as it may be that something strikes a cord and makes one of you feel very uncomfortable. Ignoring this could have dire consequences for your marriage.
As far as putting you in touch with resources, I can't do that, I am afraid, you will have to do that research yourself - but do check very carefully first.
Information regarding physical/sexual safety are important to consider. Whilst you know (and trust) your sexual health status, a third party might not so it would be advisable to use condoms anyway! Buy thin or flavoured ones if you are wanting mutual enjoyment and maximum sensation. Women can spread STI's between each other whilst performing oral sex and indeed can spread HIV too, so don't make assumptions about the safety of oral sex. Use dental dams or cling film to cover the vulval area and protect from transmission of any infection.
Take care of yourselves and think this through very carefully some more.
Claire - SASHA
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