Our expert says:
Gosh. It does sound extravagant to come back for anything but maybe a close family wedding. And even then. Does she even know the guy well ? The real issue, apart from trying to persuade her not to waste money, would be questions. (a) Is she often this reckless and feckless with money ? If so, that should be cause for concern ; and (b) why does she feel so scared that you might think she was "letting you down" ? Have previous events given her this impression, or is she generally over-concerned about lwetting people down, even when they themselves wouldn't feel let down at all ? If so, she may need some counselling to improve her self-esteem and self-confidence.
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