Our expert says:
Sometimes, to be a good person, you have to think more of the other person than of yourself. With his father being terribly ill and at serious risk of dying, you can hardly expect even the most adorable man on earth to be thinking of you and contacting you. That would be selfish. And this is surely not the time to say :" Sorry your dad's dying, but anyway, I'm breaking up with you".
As Lisa says, if the positions were reversed, and you had either of your parents on the brink of death, would YOU choose rather to be involved in a newish romance ? Maybe you need to use the time to re-examine your own neediness, your demand for major attention from whatever man is in your life. You seem to be focussing on what he does for you, rather than on what you can do for him ( or anyone else, for that matter ).
Re-read Lisa's wise message several times, maybe especially if you don't like what it says.
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