Our expert says:
Not only was this highly disrespectful of you, her home and the home of her children, but disrespectful of herself.
She had no need to go out with drunks, and if the designated driver, the aim is to get them to their OWN beds, not hers. What does she think "designated" means ? If he lived too far away to be driven home that night he should have not gone to the party or should have booked himself a room in a hotel for th night.
And if she was so amnesic and falling over drunk - what on earth sort of designated driver is that ? Is the new rule that the least paralytic drunk gets designated ? What risk was there to herself, the car and other innocent drivers ?
If she chooses to have no female friends, that's her choice, and no excuse for anything else.
Is it believable that she would consider i no problem at all if you did exactly the same thiong when she was away ?
Marriage counselling, if she can bring herself to admit there is a problem and to commit herself to trying to solve it, or consult a good lawyer to protect your own interests.
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