Our expert says:
Moving rapidly into a passionate relationship, especially when you are both already committed to other people, is never a good idea. And such relationships at work are never ever a good idea. It also sounds as if nobody actually works hard wherever it is that you work, if there's time for all that flirting and chating.
Whatever sick game he's playingnnow is unfair and unpleasant, and should be ignored. He's playing with you. STOP making any form of contact with him except strictly as required by your business.
See if its possible to transfer to a different part of your company or its work area, so you're not so physically close, and ignore him totally. And get really busy with work and hobbies, so you dont have time to sit around thinking romantic thoughts about a guy who is a heel. Learn from this and let go.
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