Our expert says:
Dear Anon for this
Sometimes people say things in the heat of the moment. Often they will also say hurtful things to mask the real problem or to shift the blame because they feel quilty.
Good for you to try and change your life style! But remember in the end even men with the most beautiful, thin and sexy wifes have marriage problems, so your weight is just a small part of the problem - and you can change it. You are so much more as a person than just your shape!
Some men find it very difficult to talk about problems or to say "I'm sorry". Wait for the right moment and share your feelings about feeling self conscious now when having sex because of his hurtful words and then make the decision to forgive him - for as you said, you can see that he is trying to make up for it.
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