Our expert says:
Its obviously great for any two people, especially sibs, to be so affectionate and supportive of each other. But where it becomes a matter of being over-protective, and of this relationship becoming a substitute for rather than a supplement to, other relationships, and limiting each other's lives, it can become a problem. Being an adult includes the right to make mistakes. This guy even you admit "seems to be OK"- but you resent him spending time with your sister, even if that makes her happy. Maybe you need to concentrate more on developing your own life, developing friendships and activities that have nothing to do with her, so you can become more like sisters and less like siamese twins. Counselling might help you to do this more effectively and efficiently
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