Our expert says:
Firstly, though you don't mention your own qualifications ( and hence what this woman could reasonably expect from you ) as your contact is within a training context and not therapeutic, you should refer her to (a) HR people in her own compnay, whose task it is to deal with such problems, and (b) possibly to a counsellor to help therapeutically, if that too is needed. As it sounds as though she may be actually paranoid and mentally unwell, a proper assessment by a shrink would be very helpful to her.
Sometimes one can persuade a paranoid person to see a shrink by emphasizing that it is not an accusation that she is sick, but to help her ope with what must be a very upsetting and stressful situation, and also emphasizing that a psychiatrist being a medical doctor is bound to keep professional secrecy about whatever he learns in that role.
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