Our expert says:
Did I tell you so ? Or did YOU tell you so, but you ignored your own wise words and went ahead anyway ? This arangement may be simply convenient for him, but really doesn't take you into account.
How much time has he had to sort out his affairs ? If the divorce was within recent months, its understandable that they might not yet be fully sorted out. If its been a year or more, there's not much sorting out going on, is there ? It IS possible ( thousands of people manage it ) for a couple to stay physically and emotionally apart after a divorce, but for both parents to keep contact with the child. And if he took the matter to Maintenance Court, they'd calaculate how much each parent should contribute financially, but would also be able to specifiy that he should be able to continue contact with the child - their task is to decide whatever would be best for the child, and the mother would not be allowed unreasonably to keep him from his child.
Consider seeing a counsellor to sort out what would be best for all of you, if you don;t have a good friend or family member to talk this through with
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