Our expert says:
I'm not entirely sure what you are describing when you talk of looking at "someone you once loved" - do you mean someone you still love but for whatever reason you're no longer with ? Or someone you loved once upon a time and now do not love any more ? If you no longer love them, genuinely, you should not really be involved in or concerned about them or their life, and should have moved on with your own life and new relationships.
Maybe you're describing a situation where the guy divorced you and you didn't really want that to happen ?
Kids are not statistics - and usually do better if a mutually hostile and hurtful relationship is ended, and if they are allowed a smooth relationship with each parent, independently.
And simply blaming yourself for past events isn't helpful - what happened, happened. Learn from it, and get the help you need, from a good local counsellor. If it were easy to deal with such matters, they actually wouldn't be significant or big aspects of our life.
with proper help, you will get through this and can find a happier way of life ahead
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