Our expert says:
As a sexologist having worked with many individuals and couples over a number of years and having read much literature on the sexual practices across the world, I can confidently say that what you describe in your question is by no means dysfunctional nor uncommon. What is most important here is that at all times, as you and your wife explore your erotic turn-ons, expand your sexual play repertoire and experiment with the shifting of your relationship boundaries and rules, that at all times as a couple you have discussed and agreed to all activities. Thus mutual consent and trust are critical factors here.
You may discover that you share some ideas and as a couple you may choose to go there. There will also be certain ideas that you will not share and here it is important that as a couple you respect each other and do not put pressure on the other, manipulate each other etc. If you reach an impasse you struggle to work through, then a sex therapist specialising in alternative sexual lifestyles may be helpful in assisting you as a couple work through it.
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