Our expert says:
I'm afraid your lack of punctuation makes it very difficult to understand your question. I therefore will make two comments:
(1) if you are using her for sex and she is unaware of this, then you are treating her like a sex object (ie. not taking her feelings into account, thinking only of yourself) and I consider this abusive; and
(2) any sex after bleeding needs to be checked out with a medical professional.
Claire - SASHA
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