Our expert says:
Ageing and Sexuality expert
I always wonder why people find wanting this life saving discussion on HIV testing as being impolite, insulting to the other person. I know, I know the old stories about this - it may be taken to mean I do not trust you, or ,you cannot trust me as we have been apart.
This is just not good enough - it is too dangerous to avoid this conversation as you are afraid of upsetting your partner- or yourself.
I like the way you have written this right here - "I feel it is important as... " Always begin the conversation with a positive fact., as in "I am so looking forward to having you penetrate me so let's both get tested before I get to Pretoria. " No shyness, pure sexy facts:)
You go girl.
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