Our expert says:
Divorce support expert
When I see people who are going through a breakup I urge them to be honest with themselves and recognise the signs, early on in the relationship, that were an indication that their relationship would not last. Some relationships do last many many years, decades sometimes, but the truth is, the signs that things would not last are there from the start. People though hang on, not because they are in love with a person but because they are in love with the idea they have of that person.
You are very young and have your whole life ahead of you. You want to be with someone who loves you and who is there for you, unconditionally and you deserve that person too. Although most relationships need at times some guidance to grow, being with someone we love and who loves us back shouldn't be an effort, especially this soon.
I suggest that you think deeply about what you need and want and what you are getting and look for the signs...which incidentally you have already spelled out rather clearly, and make the best decision for your future.
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