Our expert says:
With any rebound romance, be cautious and take your time. He is VERY likely to be going through grief and other complex emotional responses to the discovery that his wife sheated on him repeatedly and lied to him. That takes time.
You are expecting far too much from him art this stage, and this risks the chances of this developing in to a lastingly happy relationship.
And notice your complaint - you complain that he doesn\t "spoil" you, or tell you he loves you, or send you fond messages - do you do these things for him ?
You CHOSE to start a relationship with a man in this situation, and if you wanted "someone to spoil me" and be very visibly crazy about you, you chose badly, and in a way unfair to him.
Either be patient and support him in the healing he needs to do, or part as gently and kindly as you can, and look for a guy free to "spoil" you as you wish to be spoiled.
You sound obsessed with your own relatively trivial sense of "hurt", and to have no genuine symnpathy for his very real and major hurt.
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