Our expert says:
If this wasn't a one-off event, and is likely to be his pattern for the future, it certainly could cause problems in anuy relationship. OK, not having had a close mother-child relationship, maybe you can't understand what it means to him, but he needs to grow beyond it to be able to make his own adult decisions.
Try o discuss this calmly with him, mentioning that it's hard for you, not having shared the experience, to understand how he involves his mother in this sort of thing, and suggesting that you work together to find a better way of handling such disputes
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