Our expert says:
It is important to speak of things acurately. Your partner CAN control his finances, but does not do so. It is HIS responsibility that he doesn't bother to do so, not some weird external force that prevents him from doing it.
And the big question I DON'T hear you asking is - where does he waste all his money ? IF it isn't repaying debts, p;aying for household expenses or the car, or petrol for it - WHAT does he spend it on ? Is he alcoholic or a drug addict ? Is he gambling it away ?
As lomng as he can depend on you to bail him out, he won't bother to be adult and responsible.
You have no duty whatever to support a deliberaely irresponsible bum, who seems to feel the world owes him a living.
He's not "Depressed about money" - he's sulking and feeling sorry for himself.
What's an intelligent and capable woman like you doing, haning onto a loser like him ?
It may seem hard, but your support is encouraging him to stick to self-damaging bad habits. And you arfe stgrong enopugh and good enopugh not to need to buy a relationship
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