Our expert says:
I don't like the image of "close myself up"! It does sound like a cruel person to have said something like that to you. Maybe they were trying to be helpful and to give you good advice, but i sounds as though they did so clumsily and unhelpfully.
<br/>It is important that women should realize that they are, and can be, splendid and fulfilled and don't HAVE to have a husband or children in order to do so. You also have to reconize that at this age and older, the risks to the child ( of being born with problems ) and to the mother, start to increase significantly.
<br/>Wouldn't it be wise for you to see a good local counsellor to work through all this, and make the wisest decision practical ?
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