Our expert says:
Just tell her. She may already have suspicions, and it is relevant to her as well as to you. Top marks to your domestic for having recorded his ridiculous and manipulative arguments - she should duplicate those recordings and place them in safe places. If he was implying that she would have to sleep with him to keep her job, that could I suspect have been against the law.
Just talk this over calmly with your mom ( once the copies of the recordings are in safe places ) and start by talking about what the domestic reported to you, and the existence of the tape which you have heard - and when she has begun to digest that, mention that he acted abusively towards you, too, and that you have been concerned about telling her about this, but want to ask for her help.
What he has been doing is wrong and criminal, and clearly, having got away with abusing you ( and, who knows, maybe others ) he feel free to continue to abuse others. It would obviously be best to act with your mother's support and help, but if she will not act, then you should report this, with the domestic, to the police, with your complaint and hers, and ask for the police to investigate. Such abusers should not be protected from the legal consequences of their acts
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