Our expert says:
Surely you both need to see a relationship counsellor together to see what can be sorted out and to be better able to make wise decisions for the future. YOu're experiencing one of the reasons why it is wise to take great care NOT to have children with anyone until you are very very certain they're someone worth spending your life with. THis is not about you somehow coming to accept his selfish and cheating ways, but with him reforming and treating you and his child with proper respect
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