Our expert says:
As you righltly say you dont want to be locked in a relationship where the disparity in desire is so great that sex becomes pointless. From what you describe, I get the impressiont hat your partner is quite sexually repressed and this will not change unless ther is a major intervention. Perhaps its just a question of knowledge ( if there is no foreplay there is a clearly a problem in this department) you do not say what your ages are - so it might just be inexperience or perhaps something more ddep rooted. There is no easy way out of this - You need to sit him down and talk about it ... and you can start with the basic need for foreplay - the restof te work should be to get him to a sex councellor where both of you can explore your feelings and needs.
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