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Posted by: debbie | 2011/02/19

help my asb!

Ek het vandag gehoor my geliefde dra vroue onderklere. Ons is nou 6 maande saam. Ek het dit nog nooit self gesien nie, maar dis bevestig deur 2 van sy ekse. Hoe hanteer n mens so iets? My maag is op n knop en ek is naar vandat ek dit gehoor het. So iets het ek nog nooit teegekom nie. Dit voel of my wereld ineen gestort het.

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If you haven't seen this yourself, I wonder who DID see it and was able to tell you ? He probably feels ashamed about it and doesn't know how to tell you. YOu need to discuss it with him, and can say that 2 of his exes have mentioned it, and you'd like to understand it.
It may sound very odd to you, but its not terribly uncommon, and usually in otherwise ordinary heterosexual men. Obviously, they don't talk about it easily, so we're generally unaware that its not rare.
Discuss it with him - and maybe his exes can chat with you about how they came to terms with this ( unless this was the reason they left him !)

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Posted by: s | 2011/02/21

gaan deur sy klere kas en kyk of jy iets kry... dan kan jy met hom praat daaroor. hulle kon jou dalk net leuns vertel het

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Posted by: debbie | 2011/02/20

CyberShrink
Dit is een van die redes hoekom die verhoudings nie gewerk het nie. Hy het ook n kwaai humeur, maar ek het dit ook nog nie ervaar nie. Die inligting is konfidensieel aan my oorgedra, aangesien dit n groot familie rusie sal veroorsaak. Ek weet nie hoe ons op die onderwerp kan kom om te hoor wat hy daarvan sal se nie en indien hy we''ll dit sal beken nie. Ek sal nie so iets in n verhouding kan duld en hanteer nie. Miskien is die fout by my dan!

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Posted by: cybershrink | 2011/02/19

If you haven't seen this yourself, I wonder who DID see it and was able to tell you ? He probably feels ashamed about it and doesn't know how to tell you. YOu need to discuss it with him, and can say that 2 of his exes have mentioned it, and you'd like to understand it.
It may sound very odd to you, but its not terribly uncommon, and usually in otherwise ordinary heterosexual men. Obviously, they don't talk about it easily, so we're generally unaware that its not rare.
Discuss it with him - and maybe his exes can chat with you about how they came to terms with this ( unless this was the reason they left him !)

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