Posted by: WOLF | 2009-06-23


Hi, i have a girlfriend that i have been with 8 years now and we neva thought of getting married or commited. i dnt feel that passionat about her anymore! is it that im use to her or what might the prob be?

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You could indeed have become used to each other, and even marriages can grow stale unless both partners actively work to keep it alive and lively. Couples counselling can clarify how best to resuscitate what's good in it

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Posted by: Rick | 2009-06-25

Renewing love can be an amazing experience, you obviously shared feelings and chemistry in the beginning of your relationship, and deep down somewhere it must still be there.

As I know women and Ive had my fair share of experience with them...they still harbour a desire to be romantically swept off their feet by someone dashing...this is obviously a metaphore, but, try the romance, soft music, chocolates, romantic poetry...burn insence, play esoteric music and give her a sex yet...let that build up otherwise she will think you are just trying to butter her up.

Maybe start off by treating her to a session or two at the local beauty salon...facial, manicure, pedicure..women love that...then take her out for a nice romantic lunch...spend a bit, this is not the time to be cheap. When you get back, then paly the music..burn incense...massage etc..

Or cook her a nice meal at home, soak her feet in a mustard bath then give them a nice reflexology massage.

These are just the end of the day women just want you to show them that you care, love and respect them. Doing something for them without expecting something back in return is a great turn on for them.

Try it and good luck...anything is possible if you want it badly enough.

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Posted by: WOLF | 2009-06-25

Thanks for your respond Micky! its kind of hard sometimes! its like that burn of seeing her, being with her is gone! il take your advice and see if it works! thanks micks

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Posted by: Micky | 2009-06-24

Make each other feel special go for a romantice dinner,suprise her go for lunch, breakfast etc do things together.Phone her up and tell her that you miss her or love her or I' m just thinking about you. Just remember that if you break up with her because the passionate thing and in your next relationship it will also become an issue.

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Posted by: WOLF | 2009-06-23

how do someone keep it alive? U know!!keep the flame burning?

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