Our expert says:
She does need to undwerstand that you are at slightly different stages in your experience of life, and that it is not unreasonable for you to want to see a bit more of the world --- something she apparently valued enough to have made sure that she did so, previously. If it wasn't silly for her to do it, it's not silly for you to do it. It's not fair for her to expect you to abandon your dreams ; dreams she has already realized.
She is being selfish in expecting you to settle immediately, not merely into marriage but high mortgages. Maybe a couple of sessions with a relationship counsellor can straighten this out. If she really refuses to understand this reasonable basis for a slight postponement in wedlock ( now you understand the lock in wedlock ? ) then maybe, despite other appearances, she's not quite as loveable as it seemed, and maybe not the right person for you. Even from your brief comments, it sounds as though she was a bit desperate to get married
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