Our expert says:
Forced marriages are unfortunate and should be illegal. Aranged marriages are accepted in some religions and cultures, and seem to be more often eventually happy than one might think. But no form of marriage to an abuser should be tolerated, by spouse or by parent or by family. She needs to understand, though, that be insisting on continuing to be furious about what her mother did, she is keeping the hurt alive and keeping her own misery current --- the abusive man is gone, and her mother probably isn't greatly worried --- it is your mother herself who is sufering from her own anger. She should see a CNT style therapist / counsellor to help her find ways of dealing with this that will be more useful to her
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