Our expert says:
I always say abortion should be forbidden by law UNLESS there is comprehensive and proper counselling afterwards. It is NEVER a minor procedure psychologically. I understand why you decided to have an abortion, and blaming yourself now doesn't help ; the aim should be to move on with your life and not to get into situations in which an abortion would be considered, again.
What I can't understand is why if you hate the guts of your abusive ex bf, you would want to have a child by him ? Surely having a child should never be an act of vengeance, but should be only a creation of love ?
DO, urgently, arrange to see a good psychologist or other counsellor to work through your remaining grief and conflicts, to prepare for a more wholesome life in future. And make sure you don't fall pregnant by anyone until you have completed that task
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