Our expert says:
This must upset you very much. It seems to me that your marriage is not an easy one if you have to learn to live with things. If you can, sit down with him and discuss it. Do not accuse or blame him. Give " I " messages e.g. 'I was looking for a number when I saw this funny message on the phone and I got really angry / scared of what it could mean. Can we talk about it?' If this is not possible, make an appointment with a marriage counsellor and explore options. My experience is that men resist this, but very often 'hive in' as they are also unhappy and wish to resolve issues. You can also try the SASHA helpline (0860 100 262) for a referral list for therapists in your area
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