Our expert says:
This sounds more like a general psychological issue rather than a sexual one per se. Anxiety like this is common; for some reason we clam up when we have something invested (i.e. a hope that 'maybe this one will like me'). Perhaps you need to address your anxieties by not aiming for a girlfriend first, but aiming for a friend, then get used to speaking to girls in a non-threatening way? Unfortunately your desperation is likely to be picked up and this will work against you. If you aim just to be friends with girls first, then you can get to see the range of things that girls are intested in (we even sometimes have similar interests to guys!) and then you can speak to girls about such topics later when perhaps you are interested.
If this doesn't help, read up on or get therapy with someone who can help with social anxiety of this sort.
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