Our expert says:
Its good for someone to feel responsibility for his parents ; for a sister who is working and should be able to support herself, maybe this should be less important to him But unless he sees his relationship with you as simply one of convenience ( does it help him to remain legally in this country and do business / work here ? ) he has to recognize that his primary responsibility has to be to you and his children and his marriage to you. Its nonsense to expect you or even allow you, to buy things for his sister.
I strongly suspect, from the story you tell, what he haas been simply calmly using you, exploiting you, and there is nothing honourable whatever in that. Consult a lawyer, and consider leaving him before you give him free citizenship, and get the court to order him to pay full maintenance fopr the children.
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