Our expert says:
It made sense for you to start with individual counselling But then couples counselling was essential if the pair of you were to heal your relationship. For her to have refused to do so, protesting that "there was nothing wrong with her" shows either foolishness and an inability to understand what a relationship is, or defensiveness and a fear that she may indeed have contributed to the problems, and an unwillingness to contribute towards solving them.
Being dumped is unpleasant, but you are probably better off without her, and she is no oonger worthy of your love. Insisting on remaining commited to someone who is so very clearly not committed to you or the relationship, will get neither of you anywhere --- move on, with the aid of further counselling if necessary
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