Our expert says:
Revenge often brings some short term relieve and provides personal power on a certain level, but your hurt seems to be a bit deeper though and you should ask yourself if this is the way you would want to continue the relationship you are in currently and the long term actions you would like to take.
I would recommend that you seek professional assistance to work through your own trauma and assist you in creating the life you want and getting you into your authentic power.
A website that could be helpful is www.sexualhealth.co.za. You are welcome to phone the SASHA Helpline – 0860 100 262; and a facilitator will be able to assist you in finding a practitioner as close as possible to you.
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