Our expert says:
One good reason for continuing to live when one finds one seems to have lost site of the reason for doing so, is to still be here when you re-discover the reason for it. Meanwhile, one needs to work hard with one's psychotherapist to understand and reverse one's long-term habit of self-defeating and self-damaging choices and behaviours.
I'm really not sure you need a fiancee at times like this, especially not an unsupportive one who undermines your confidence. Work with your shrink to regain the self-confidence not to need a man in your life, especially until you develop better skills ar choosing worthy men. You don't need to allow his comments to bother you at all.
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