Our expert says:
I'm puzzled as to why anyone, such as at work, would or could "hate" you. From your comments, it sounds as though they think YOU gossip, and that anything they tell you in confidence you will broadcast to others. IS that possibly true ? Even if you don't think so, there must be some reason why they would all feel this was so.
They wouldn't know if you secretly, inside, liked rumours and gossip, so they must be assuming this because you seem more interested in such chat, and really excited by it, and maybe you seem much less interested in more serious discussions on other topics. Maybe they're misunderstanding you, but you can still change this for the better.
If people ask you for information about others, play politely dumb - smile, but say sorry, you don't know about that, and that it isn't your job or your preference to talk about other people - why don't they ask the other person, themselves, directly ? Tell them you try not to listen in when the bosses or other people are talking, so you aren't able to report things from them, and that if someone chooses to tell you something in confidence, then obviously uyou would keep it confidential and couldn't talk about it.
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