Our expert says:
I know we have free speech ( though it can be expensive at times ) but there should be a special place in Hell for people who meddle in other people's lives and nag them to get married, or to have children, or both.
GOod for you for standing your ground, Annoyed, and making your own decisions. It is not "having committment issues" to have your own plans and priorities in life, and you are not a cold person for also enjoying your own company. Some folks are pathetically unable to be on their own, and it's a strength to be able to enjoy that as well as to be with others.
In a way, these meddlers seem to feel you have to live the way they do, and want whatever they want. There was an old saying, in years gone by, "Marry in haste, repent at leisure". Maybe if more people took their time to make their own decisions about who and when to marry, there'd be less divorces and less unhappy couples ?
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