Our expert says:
Violence from either of you is not acceptable and will of course only worsen the situation. It seems that what you need to establish is whether there is a way forward for the two of you. You have been together for 2 years so clearly there have been many positive things that have kept you together.
What is crucial is that you both agree that you want to try and make it work. If one or both of you wants the relationship to end, then you will need to work through ths issues of grief and loss that are attached to the ending of a relationship.
Relationships ending is never an easy process, but gaining a clear understanding as to why can help you begin to deal with this, and there is no point for either of you being in a relationship that is violent and emotionally destructive.
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