Our expert says:
Are you really satisfied with a man who only "communicates" when he wants sex ? Presumably when you parted, he missed the sex, and suddenly started talking about love beause he thought that was what you'd want to get back and start delivering again. Isn't it really obvious what he really wants ? And its not a romantic and loving relationship, judging by your description. And to embarrass you in front of your child and ignore your feelings is NOT loving at all.
What on earth do you find about such a person, that makes him worthy of your love ?
Leaving aside the issue of whether "Mr Right" is anything but a myth, selfish guys who only want sex NEVER EVER turn into Mr Right, not even with major surgery. Why do you think so little of yourself, that you ae thinking as though this guy is somehow your only chance of meeting a nice guy who actually loves you for more than sex ?
He won't change. If this is all you want, accept it and stop complaining. If you recognize that you deserve far more, dump him, and tell him you'll get a restraining order from court unless he leaves you alone ; and move on and explore nicer people.
Sorry to hear of Dee Dee's disappointments. Getting such an order shouldn't be so difficult, and works well in places where there are competent people in the magistrate's court ( OK, that does make it hard in areas where the magistrates are unskilled, uncaring, or badly trained.
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