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Posted by: beauty | 2012/06/08

Q. he is a sex maniac

I am a woman of 38 involved with a 44 yr old who is a sex maniac and who does not want to stay a single day without sex.i have a concern because when i am not around he go for second best as i find cosmetics and underwears in our house.

I am thinking of ending the relationship as i cannot stand the fact that he -|- me every now and then and still he is not able to handle one day without sex.So i am not coping well with sex every monday to monday, january to december ,1st to 31

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Addictions expert

Dear Beauty,

It sounds as if you find yourself in a really tough situation. Not only must the emotional impact of his cheating be taking a toll but you also have to be so careful that your physical health is not being compromised. Your boyfriend seems to be putting a lot of lives in danger.

Sex addiction is a disease that needs treatment and if your boyfriend is not willing to get help then is it safe for you to remain in the relationship?

Karen

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Posted by: Hornyguy67 | 2012/06/22

Honestly cannot answer that. First need to chat to her, get to know her and determine what she wants.
Michelle would you perhaps liek to be email buddies?

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Posted by: michelle | 2012/06/22

Hornyguy ... so how would you treat her better? Seeing that you are a Horny guy?

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Posted by: Hornyguy | 2012/06/19

Hey Beuaty - good decision. You deserve better. Would you perhaps like to be friends?

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Posted by: Beauty | 2012/06/18

Thanks
I have spoken to him and seem to be defensive so i am considering divorce as the 1st help as i am now having trush and my discahrge is watery and he is not ready to accept that he is doing it without protection out there.

So i wont stand any shit like this as i am very responsible person who takes good care of her body so there is no need for someone to destroy it for me.

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Posted by: Addictions expert | 2012/06/18

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Posted by: Hornyguy | 2012/06/11

Hey Beauty, i am aslo 38 years old - i love sex - if i had my way i woulld do it everyday. Your man does not appreciate you - although he is so lucky he still goes looking for sex else where. I agree he should be able to handle a few days without sex. In addition it puts you at risk of contracting STD''s.