Our expert says:
Flirting is NOT innocent in a man who is engaged, let alone married, and to declare that he has no intention of stopping this, is a bad sign for any long-term relationship. Its what I think former US President Jimmy Carter called Adultery in your heart, even if not physically. His having acusd you of cheating, without any evidence of that, is also obviously a bad sign, and suggests a feeling of guilt and self-esteem problems.
Do not agree to proceed to marriage unless and until this is sorted out. How would he feel if you flirted freelly wih other men, and just told him that it wasn't serious ? I doubt he'd feel that was fine. Suggest relationship counselling pre-mariage to see if this can be sorted out. IF he refuses, that'd be a very bad sin, and should probably be a deal-breaker as regards the marriage
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