Our expert says:
Maybe you invaded his privacy, but he had already invaded your reasonable expectation of honesty --- if his relationship with the Other Woman was over, there would not be those calls or the need to have them in private, and why would they still be talking of his mother and lobola ? What has lobola to do with her generosity in merely "relieving his sexual appetite" ? Or with her "never being into this guy" ? What on earth is there to love with a man who was lying to you and the other woman, and using both of you, and whi merely gets angry when he is discovered to be cheating on you ? Why are you apologising when it is him who has been dishonest ? Why should you show him you're sorry ? What about him showing you he's sorry ? He does not love you, that's obvious. He is using the pair of you, and angry that you may have spoiled that arrangement.
I suspect you are basially in love with being in love, rather than with the highly unworthy man you chose to be "in love" with. You deserve very much better than he could or would give or be.
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